how do i?

I really don't know where to start.

The human mind is a really complex one... or should I say, heart as well. How do you contemplate telling a guy that he's really nice and all, but just that you have no feelings for him? It's a tough one. One of my friends is having that problem and being a friend and bystander, it's easy to give advice and all... But i do feel for her cos i sorta know what she's going thru ~ doing it is probably is harder than giving someone advice. Practice makes perfect? lol... gals, not asking u to practice telling people off, although in life, it's a good skill to have (learning the art of saying 'no'). Some of the advice i gave her was (typical excuses):

- avoid hanging out with him
- if he wanna go out with you, give a reason (or excuse; another more blatant word for it lol)
- repeat the above steps if he persistently asks you out
- be clear with him; tell him that being friends is as far as you wanna take the relationship with him, so he knows clearly where you stand

There are probably millions of approaches in this.. lol.. but sorry, i'm not an expertise in this area... But I do know that if your heart is not in it, then don't go into a relationship cos it's not fair on you, as you're committing yourself into something you don't wanna do and it's not fair on the other party, cos he/she's thinking u like him/her but really, you're not in for that. If it's something that you want, then go for it.. Finding that one person who truly makes you happy is really hard to find. You only need to find one person... Muahaha, it's like finding a needle in a haystack... lol..

oh cow... looking at my assessment sheet, i have:

2 assessments due in Week 3 (group presentation + paper)
2 essays due in Week 4
3 essays due in Week 5

COWa bunga!!! =.=''

******* Tai.... hurry come back to Adelaide..... miss u..... eventhough u're having a blast working/training in US********